The Watchtower—Study Edition | December 2023
STUDY ARTICLE 52
Young Sisters—Become Mature Christian Women
18 You may choose to get married. The qualities and skills that we have discussed will help you to become a capable wife. Of course, if you are considering marriage, you should choose your mate very carefully. It is one of the most important decisions you will ever make. Remember, you will come under the headship of the man you marry. (Rom. 7:2; Eph. 5:23, 33) So ask yourself: ‘Is he a mature Christian? Is he putting spiritual interests first in his life? Does he make wise decisions? Can he admit his mistakes? Does he respect women? Does he have the skills needed to support me spiritually, materially, and emotionally? Does he handle responsibility well? For example, what congregation assignments does he have and how does he handle them?’ (Luke 16:10; 1 Tim. 5:8) Of course, if you want to find a good prospective husband, you will need to be a good prospective wife.
This photo illustration shows a capable sister, eyeing a prospective husband after a Congregation meeting. The brother is clean cut, takes responsibility for his congregation cleaning assignment and mature ( age wise) to marry.
What more is asked from this brother to be marriage material?
His spirituality, his everyday responsibilities, his employment, his congregation assignments( elder, ministerial servant) in his the Kingdom Hall, and wise ( at home, work and congregation) decision making.
After 40 years of attending Kingdom Hall meetings, I witnessed many divorces inside my congregation and surrounding congregations. Too many teen marriages, too many sisters and brothers who dated for less than a year ( who married their first crush) who later divorced, spiritual brothers and sisters ( who would commit adultery) divorce each other after a few years of marriage and remarry , spiritual brothers ( who refused to pay child support ) having their ex-wives move back to their parents homes for financial support, and spiritual brothers who lived lives of debauchery after leaving their wives and congregation.
The Watchtower Society make it look like only a baptized, dedicated Jehovah's Witness marriage is utopia. It never was/will be.